"I love all the energy here! I’m enjoying how ppl are sharing their experiences in life, love, and sex." Okay. Perhaps when you are in the gym lockers you could pass on some of your advice to those men. Biceps, mirrors, and superficial values. But if you have no empathy for the daughters and sisters in your society then maybe you are part of the problem. Not everyone can be amazingly grounded and well rounded, it is a journey, it is a spectrum of growth. So easy to minimise, undermine. I spoke on behalf of many women from all walks of life and stages of growth. You won't find one selfie of me on the internet. All my mirrors are covered with black cloth. Thanks for the victim shaming mate. But I guess, there are people starving in Africa. If only we could walk a mile in each others shoes.